As most of you know, I’m a huge animal lover—especially when it comes to dogs. As a kid, I knew I wanted to make a difference in their lives. My heart has always been drawn to the "underdogs" (literally and figuratively). I've developed a "knack" for fearful dogs trusting me. Friends and family have jokingly nick-named me "the dog whisperer" because of how well I connect with them.
Blaze's Story
A few months ago, I heard about a dog tied up at an abandoned house. Neighbors described him as aggressive and to steer clear. But anyone that knows me knows that "steering clear" isn't in my nature lol. So, I trespassed onto the property (oops) to check on him, bringing food and water just in case. What I found was heartbreaking: a large, fearful dog, chained up amidst trash and filth, with no sign of care.
He was fearful and defensive at first, but he quickly realized I wasn’t a threat, took the whole bag of dog food I brought and began scarfing it all down. I left my information with a neighbor to pass along to the owners, and a couple of days later, I got the call. They were going through a tough time and agreed to surrender him to me.
I found him a temporary home, but he struggled there because of their cats. After being tied up with an inconsistent supply of food and water, he developed resource guarding issues. I couldn't find another foster home, and all the shelters and rescues are at capacity. I didn’t know what to do, but I knew I couldn’t give up on him.
With the responsibilities of being self-employed, a director of Housin Hounds Animal Rescue, plus caring for my own four animals, adding a resource guarding dog to our 1,100 sq. ft house wasn't really practical. A family friend donated a dog run, and I set it up outside my already crowded home. I built a doghouse with an air conditioner (by myself, mind you), giving him a safe place to stay until I find him a home. I was determined to give him a better life.
The Dilemma
After a particularly long and exhausting day at work, I came home to the usual routine of caring for all the animals. Just as I was finishing up, my neighbor approached me with a letter in hand. It was from our mail delivery person. My heart sank as I read it.
The letter explained that due to Blaze’s presence, the mail carrier was no longer comfortable delivering mail to my house. I'm assuming Blaze had been barking and, despite being securely kenneled, was seen as a potential threat. I was infuriated. I was waiting on an ultrasonic barking device to help with his barking, and now, his barking was preventing it from arriving, I assumed (how ironic).
As I was fuming over the letter, I found another note in my mailbox—a second reminder from the postal service about the issue. At this point, I was in tears, mentally, physically, and emotionally drained. I didn't understand how a dog in a dig-proof kennel with privacy screens, secured with three additional safety measures, would prevent someone from delivering mail over 60 ft away.
Turning Anger into Kindness
But as I sat with my emotions, the "empath" in me started to take over. I realized that I didn’t know the full story of the person delivering my mail. It’s common knowledge that people are often afraid of Pitbull breeds, especially one as large and intimidating as Blaze. What if the mail carrier had been attacked by a dog in the past? If I’d been attacked by a dog in the past and saw one barking at me while I tried to do my job, it might trigger me.
Or what if they were just infuriated by seeing a dog kenneled outside in 90-degree weather, not knowing he has air conditioning? I've been in their shoes- passing judgment when seeing a dog kenneled outside. I used to think, "That's no life for a dog." without considering the circumstances. Now, I'm living that reality, doing the best I can for Blaze while knowing it's still not enough.
I’ll never know their reasoning, but I remembered two of the best pieces of advice I've been given: "Kill 'em with kindness" and "Educate, don't discriminate." Instead of reacting with anger, I decided to write a heartfelt letter to the mail carrier, explaining Blaze's story and the efforts I've made to keep him and others safe. I also included a gift card, hoping to make a connection and maybe change their perspective. (See below)
The Importance of Empathy and Rescue
Empathy
Let’s remember that we all have our own battles. By extending kindness and seeking to understand rather than judge, we can make the world a little better.
Blaze may still be waiting for his perfect family, but until then, he has my love, my dedication, and my promise to never give up on him. Blaze’s story is just one of many, but it’s a reminder of the power of compassion, patience, and understanding in the face of adversity.
Blaze's story is a powerful reminder of why empathy matters-- not just towards people, but towards every animal as well. We often don't know the full story behind someone else's actions or circumstances, just like we may not fully understand the behaviors of a fearful or misunderstood dog. By taking the time to understand and show compassion, we can make a world of difference for those in need.
Adopt, Don't Shop
This experience also highlights why adoption is so vital. Many dogs, like Blaze, are on their last chance, no fault of their own, but from failed owners, desperately seeking a safe haven where they can heal and thrive. By adopting, you're giving a dog a second chance at life-- a chance they might not have otherwise.
Breed Research
Before bringing a dog into your home, it's crucial to research the breed. Understanding a breed's characteristics, needs and potential challenges can prevent situations where dogs are surrendered or mistreated due to unmet expectations. Every breed has unique traits, and being informed can help ensure that the dog you choose fits well with your lifestyle.
Support Shelters and Rescues
Finally, I encourage you to support your local rescues and shelters. They are often the last line of defense for dogs like Blaze, who might not have anyone else to turn to. Whether through donations, volunteering, fostering, or simply spreading the word, your support can save lives. Remember, many dogs are on their last chance, let's make sure they get one they deserve.
A Thankful Conclusion
I wish I had more time to address his resource guarding issues around other pets. However, he has been perfectly fine with people. I’ve advocated for him, worked with him when I can (We've made SO much progress with leash walking and manners). He always has fresh bedding, food, and water. He gets baths once a week, goes on plenty of car rides and walks, and I keep him up-to-date on flea, tick, and heartworm prevention, thanks to HHAR. His situation is better than where he was, but it’s still not what he deserves. Every day, it breaks my heart to see him in that kennel when all he wants is to be part of a family.
Thank you for taking the time to read this story and if Blaze’s story touched your heart, please share it! Together, we can help him find the loving home or foster family he so desperately deserves. Your support means the world to both of us.
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To learn more about Blaze, visit Dog for adoption - Blaze, a Pit Bull Terrier in Warsaw, IN | Petfinder
Please help me find his happily ever after!
